9. Take nothing for granted.
Cultivate a daily sense of gratitude for your partner and the thousands of little blessings he or she has brought into your life. Remember that, if you’re happy in your relationship, your partner is doing a thousand little things for you every day to make your relationship work (as, hopefully, you are for them). Never take that for granted – a relationship is work of the highest order, and the second you stop it starts to slide away.
9.沒什么是理所當(dāng)然的.
日常中,培養(yǎng)一種對情人感恩的感覺,數(shù)以千記的小小的祝愿,會令他或她進入你的生活中.請記住,如果你是愛情中感覺到快樂,那是因為對方正在為你的每一天做了許多的小事情,才能讓愛情如此繼續(xù)(充滿希望的,你是屬于他們的).不要認為那是理所當(dāng)然的 ---愛情是有嚴(yán)格準(zhǔn)則的事情,當(dāng)你不遵守時,愛情就會漸漸離你而去.