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7. Respond gracefully to your partner’s demands and shortcomings.
A big killer of relationships is unreasonable expectations. Unless you married a robot, your partner comes pre-loaded with a whole range of human failures and foibles. These are features, not bugs! Learn to recognize and appreciate your partner’s quirks for what they are: an essential part of who they are as people. Since our weaknesses are often at the core of our deepest insecurities, make sure you don’t pick on or otherwise go out of your way to highlight your partner’s flaws.
7.善待情人的要求和缺點.
愛情的一個大殺手就是不可理喻的異常情況.除非你與一個機器人結婚,否則你的情人天生就會有人的缺點和不足.這些是他們的特點,不是錯誤.學會認識和欣賞情人本來就有的兩面性:一個作為人而潛在的部分.因為我們的弱點是由于我們最深處內心的不安.確保你不會指責,也不會縱容情人的缺點.
