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5. Be there for your partner.
It’s obvious what you need to do when your partner faces a major life challenge like the loss of a job or the death of a loved one. But it’s just as important to be supportive when your partner faces life’s little challenges, too – an argument at work, a rough commute, a misplaced check. Don’t let yourself be a doormat, and definitely don’t stand for physical or verbal abuse, but thicken your skin a little and be the voice of calm and reason when chaos strikes. Listen to what’s bothering them and offer whatever help – even if it’s just sympathy – you can.
5.時刻準(zhǔn)備著為情人服務(wù).
當(dāng)你的情人面臨一個生命中重大的挑戰(zhàn)時,如失業(yè)或所愛的人死去,顯然,你要做一些事情.而當(dāng)你的情人面臨生活的小挑戰(zhàn)時,你的支持也是一樣重要,如工作爭吵,坐車擁擠,丟了錢.當(dāng)吵鬧發(fā)生時,不要讓自己成為出氣袋,也確保不要動手或罵人,而只是令你的皮厚一點,并冷靜而有理地解釋.聽一聽什么令對方煩惱,即使算是同情,你一定會幫助對方.
