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4. Show them love:
How hard can it be to show our children how much we love them? Well we have to take the time to show love rather than buy love. More often than not, our busy schedules refrain us from spending quality time with our children, so what do we do? We buy them stuff. It's great that we want our children to have things but lets not let those things take the place of our love.
Schedule a convenient time, at least once a week, to spend the whole day with your child. You may not know this but our children do enjoy hanging out with us once in a while, especially when we treat them with respect and love. We do this by showing interest in their interests even if it seems wild or frivolous to us. We ought to try and be more understanding of their needs.
4.向他們表達我們的愛：
向孩子表達我們有多么愛他們到底有多難呢？我們必須花時間向他們表達愛，而不是買愛。往往我們繁忙的工作日程，讓我們沒有足夠的時間好好和我們的孩子待在一起，于是我們能做些什么來彌補呢？我們給他們買東西。我們希望我們的孩子應有盡有是不錯，但是不要讓那些東起取代了我們的愛。
安排一個合適的時間，至少一周一次，花上一整天和你的孩子待在一起。你也許不知道，但是我們的孩子的確喜歡過一段時間和我們出去玩一次，尤其是我們尊重他們，關愛他們的時候。我們尊重他們關愛他們，就要表現得對他們感興趣的事物感興趣，即使這些事物在我們看來很瘋狂或很無趣。但我們應當嘗試著去更進一步的理解他們的需要。
