1. Discipline them:

Of course disciplining our children is a given in any home. But we need to ask ourselves if we are disciplining our children properly? Who rules the perch in your home? How often do your children tell you what THEY are going to do?

Did you know children want discipline and structure in their life? When we take the time to discipline our children, and on a consistent basis, we are actually helping them to develop their character? Correct discipline is a necessary part of the growth process and we shouldn't hold back on fulfilling our responsibilities as parents. The less we spend disciplining and counseling our children the less they will feel loved by us.
1.教導他們：

當然了，教導孩子在任何家庭中都是家常便飯了。但是，我們得問問自己，是否用對了方式來教導我們的孩子？在你家里是誰說了算？你的孩子多久告訴你一次他們要去做什么？
你知道孩子們在他們的一生中需要教導和約束嗎？我們花時間來教導我們的孩子，以一種始終如一的做人原則，實際上是在幫他們塑造他們的性格？正確的教導是他們成長過程中必需的一部分，我們不應該推卸作為家長應履行的責任。我們越少的教導和關心我們的孩子，他們越覺得我們不夠愛他們。

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