2. Be a good example:
Children and teenagers sometimes do dangerous and foolish things, and that is because they do not understand or THINK about the consequences. Young minds do not have the wisdom to discern properly about the real dangers of drugs, sex, etc. Just hanging out with the wrong crowd of kids can lead our children down a destructive path.
The proper correction a child receives must be consciously taught starting when they are very young, and this means we need to take our role as parents more seriously. We are to be the good example for our children to follow. We wouldn't want to give our responsibility to someone else, would we? Just as God trains and corrects us to make us better people, so too, must we as parents discipline our children to give them the wisdom and common sense to know from right and wrong. We are in control of our children’s destiny. Let's show by example.
2.做一個好榜樣:
小孩子和青少年有時會做一些危險而愚蠢的事情,那是因為他們不明白或沒有考慮到事情的后果。年幼的大腦沒有足夠的心智,去正確辨別毒品,性等的危險。僅是交錯了朋友,都能導致我們的孩子誤入歧途。
當孩子還很小的時候,我們就必須開始有意識的教導他們正確的認知,這就意味著我們作為家長的必須更為謹慎。我們要做孩子們學習的好榜樣。我們可不想讓別人來教導我們的孩子,不是嗎?就像上帝訓導我們,糾正我們的過錯,讓我們成為更好的人。我們作為父母的也一樣,必須教導我們的孩子,讓他們具有辨別是非的智慧和常識。我們掌控著我們的孩子的命運,讓我們從做一個好榜樣開始。