3. Develop your skills
發展你的才能
Ask the person you envy how she learned to do what she does, and beef up your skill set. Then it's not about her anymore -- it's about developing your career.
向你嫉妒的人虛心請教,問他們是如何做到這樣的成就的,然后拓展你的技能。那么接下來的事情就和她無關了,就是你需要如何拓展自己的職業技能了。
"It turns out my new boss was the best manager I'd ever had," says Rothman. "But if I admitted, 'Look, Johanna, you're jealous,' I wouldn't have been able to work with her."
Rothman說:“結果證明我的新上司是我遇到過的最好的經理,但是如果我承認自己是在嫉妒她的話,我就不能和她一起共事。”