My lost love reunion findings about romantic men paralleled results of my survey of adults who never tried lost love reunions. There were significantly more men than women who chose to fill out the survey, and they expressed strong feelings for their first loves, even though they had not contacted these women (and may never do so).

我對于那些試圖重歸于好的浪漫男人的調查結果與我的另一項調查結果相符，在那項調查匯總，他們重未試圖去與失去的愛人聯系。選擇填寫這項調查的人中，男人比女人明顯要多，而且他們表達了對第一個愛人深深的情感，即使他們再未和那些女人聯系（也許永遠也不會了）。

Posts on the Message Board of my web site, Lostlovers.com, are more represented by women than men. But appearances are misleading. Actually, there are more men who are members of my site than women. The men don't post as often as the women, but they are reading! Men more often sign up for private phone consultations to talk about their lost loves than women.

在我的網頁上，女性比男性回帖更多，但這只是表面現象。事實上，訪問我的網站的男人比女人要多。男人們不經常回應，但是他們閱讀！男人們更多會就他們失去愛人一事和我進行私人的電話咨詢。

But it is a rare men's magazine that will print a story about love and romance. The editors tell me that they think men are uninterested. Not so! When my research was quoted in Playboy, it generated a lot of responses.

但是很少有男性雜志出版關于愛與浪漫的文章。編輯們告訴我他們認為男性不會對此感興趣。但事實并非如此！當我的研究被《花花公子》引用后，它產生了大量的回應。

On occasions where romance is expected (such as Valentine's Day, birthdays or anniversaries), we should all remember to separate emotions from behaviors. Men may not make scrapbooks of mementos of their love experiences, but they are every bit as loving, loyal, and yes, romantic, as women--and sometimes more so!

在一些被認為必須浪漫的時刻，比如情人節、生日或者紀念日，我們應該記住將感情與行為相區分。男人們也許不會做展現他和戀人共渡時光的剪貼簿，但是他們會和女人一樣去愛，一樣忠誠，并且一樣浪漫——有時，他們甚至比女人更浪漫！