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A person committed to excellence can still be as ambitious and more ambitious than a perfectionist.
一個(gè)追求卓越的人仍可能和完美主義者一樣 或者比完美主義者更有野心
The difference between the two is just their approach toward the journey.
兩者之間的不同在于他們面對(duì)旅途時(shí)的方式
Let me illustrate. So let's first take the perfectionist.
我來(lái)舉個(gè)例子 首先是一個(gè)完美主義者
The perfectionist is currently at point A, wants to get to the point B.
他正站在A點(diǎn) 他想到B點(diǎn)去
What's the perfect, most efficient path between the two points?
什么是最完美最有效率的方式呢
Straight line! This is the path-this is the cognitive and emotional schema
就是直的路線 這就是路線 這就是完美主義者在面對(duì)
that the perfectionist has when he or she looks at the journey,
旅途的時(shí)候抱有的認(rèn)知與感情的基模
how they want to get from where they are now to where they want to get to.
怎么從起點(diǎn)到終點(diǎn)
A person committed to, to excellence, as ambitious as the person,
一個(gè)追求卓越的人和完美主義者一樣
perfectionist, wants to get from point A to point B.
雄心勃勃 也想從A點(diǎn)到B點(diǎn)去
No different here. What is different? The cognitive schema that relates to the journey.
沒(méi)什么不一樣 不同之處在哪里？對(duì)于這段旅途 認(rèn)知基模上的不同
The person committed to excellence understands that while he improves, inevitably at some point, he would fail.
追求卓越的人明白 當(dāng)他進(jìn)步的時(shí)候 不可避免地會(huì)遭遇失敗
A perfectionist understands that sometimes she may not get the grade that she expected,
一個(gè)追求卓越的人明白 有時(shí)候她不一定能拿到她想要的分?jǐn)?shù)
but she would learn from it.
但她會(huì)吸取教訓(xùn)
A perfectionist understands that in relationships there is no such thing as a perfect relationship
一個(gè)也明白在戀愛(ài)關(guān)系之中 根本就沒(méi)有完美的戀愛(ài)關(guān)系
and then therefore, he sometimes makes a mistake, so she sometimes makes a mistake,
所以 他會(huì)犯錯(cuò) 她也會(huì)犯錯(cuò)
but they continue and they learn from it. And the relationship becomes, gets stronger.
但他們都會(huì)不斷吸取教訓(xùn) 然后他們的感情不斷地變得更加堅(jiān)固
