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And that was at least one, usually more than one significant failure,
那就是有至少一次 一般來說要多于一次的 顯著的失敗
what Warren Bennis came to call "a crucible", a real crisis
沃倫·本尼斯稱其為“考驗” 一次災(zāi)難
whether it was a meaningful loss or losing a job being fired,
無論是重要的競爭失敗 或者失去了工作
one's identity being insulted, loss of a person.
還是受到了屈辱 失去了親人
Some real serious crucible, a failure.
一些嚴(yán)重的考驗 一次失敗的經(jīng)歷
That was common to both groups, and both groups thought that failure
這是兩代人都共同擁有的 他們都將失敗
as a pivotal point, as a turning point in their lives.
看做一個關(guān)鍵點 一個生活的轉(zhuǎn)折點
Something that helped them become who they are today. Again, not saying it happened for the best
一些幫助造就今天的他們的因素 再說一遍 我不是說已經(jīng)發(fā)生的是好事
but they were able to make the best of that which happened.
而是他們能夠好好利用已經(jīng)發(fā)生的事
Now most people experience crucibles throughout their lives, hardships, difficulties,
每個人都會經(jīng)歷考驗 都會面臨困難和阻礙
but difference between the highly successful people,
但是那些極度成功的人
for example the sample in Warren Bennis's book
如沃倫·本尼斯的書里面寫到的那些人
and many other people is that they are able to make the best of what happens.
和一般人的不同之處在于 他們能夠好好地利用已經(jīng)發(fā)生的事情
They see it as an opportunity, a learning experience, a stepping stone.
他們將這些事情看成機(jī)遇 一種學(xué)習(xí)的經(jīng)歷 一塊墊腳石
The importance of failure for resilience, for well being as well.
這就是失敗對于適應(yīng)力與完善人格的作用
So let me move on and define what we mean by perfectionism.
我們繼續(xù)來定義一下完美主義吧
Because there are many definitions and we throw that word around constantly.
因為現(xiàn)在有很多的定義 我們經(jīng)常提及這個詞
But what do I actually mean by perfectionism?
但我要說的完美主義是什么
