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Read every book I could find. Talked to any person who I thought knew about it. Used the strength and then applied it to what had been a weakness of mine.
閱讀任何我能找到的書、和我認為了解這方面的人聊天，利用這個力量并將其應用于我的弱點。
Or relationships. Let's say we are going through a difficulty in relationship. And one of my top strengths is for example, authenticity. And then how can I use my authenticity in my interactions with my partner- and that will lead to higher levels of intimacy and improve the relationship in the long run, which is exactly what I did. One of my top strengths- and applied it to cultivating more intimacy.
人際關系也一樣，比如說我們的人際關系正面臨一定的困難，而我的力量之一，比方說是真誠可靠。那我如何將我的可靠用于我和我伙伴之間的關系——最終達到更高層次的親密，長遠來看，改善我們間的關系，我也正是這樣做的，將我的力量應用于產生更加親密的關系。
Think of your own example. Again, this will not be a response paper, but I highly recommend and urge you to apply it.
想想你們自己的例子，這不是作業，但我十分推薦你們試試。
Let's put some of these ideas together. Let's look at the decisions that some of you are making right now or will be making in the future, whether it's next year or three years from now, or 20 or 40 years from now.
讓我們來匯總一下這些概念，讓我們看看你們現在或者將來會做的決定，無論是明年、或是三年之后、或者20年 40年以后
How do you make decisions and how do you- what may be a helpful framework for identifying a self-concordant journey as well as outcome?
你如何去做決定——什么是制定一個自我和諧的奮斗過程以及目標的有效框架呢？
