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We then walk down to my dad's car. He had a tur- old turquoise Ford Cortina.
然后我們一起下樓走到我爸爸的車旁邊。他當時有一輛老式的綠色福特跑天下
He takes shoe polish and paints the lights of the of the car.
他把鞋油拿出來，涂在車前燈上
Why? Again later I know because at night when you drive with your lights on, you don't want the lights to be too bright in case of an air raid
為什么呢？也是后來我才知道，因為在夜里開車的時候，你開著車燈，車燈不能太亮，以防會遭到空襲
So he paints the lights. And I watch him do all that.
所以他涂了車燈，我就在一旁看著他
And then he picks me up and hugs me and says once again, I'll be back in a few days.
然后他把我抱起來，又一次的抱著我說：我過幾天就回來
He gets into his car. And I begin to sob uncontrollably.
然后他上了車，我開始控制不住的哭泣
One of our neighbours whose name is Sharlon. He is too old to go into the army.
我們的鄰居沙龍，他年歲太高不能服役
So he is standing there. We all look at my dad going off in the car. He picks me up. And I'm crying.
他站在一邊，我們一起看著我爸爸開車走了，他把我抱起來，我還在哭
And he looks at me and says, Tal, do you want to be a soldier like Aba, like your dad when you grow up? And I say, Yes, I do.
他看著我說：塔爾，你長大以后想和爸爸一樣去當兵嗎？我說我想
Well, soldiers don't cry. And I stopped crying.
他說：那好，士兵是不會哭的。于是我不哭了
And I didn't cry for almost 20 years after that.
之后將近20年，我再也沒哭過
Then I came to Harvard. And I started to study psychology.
我上了哈佛大學，我開始學心理學
You know where I'm going, right? I started to study psychology. And studying psychology,
你們知道我要講什么是吧？我開始學心理學。學心理學
I realized one of the things that I wanted to work on. One of the most important things that I wanted to work on was getting in touch with my feminine side,
我知道自己想要做的，想要做的最重要的事情之一就是找到自己女性化的一面
knowing Jung's language, the Yin and the Yang; the anima the animus.
用榮的話說，就是陰和陽；雌雄同體
