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And this is of course important in your professional life, as well, or it could be.
當然這在你的職業生涯中也很重要，或可能很重要。
If, say, you design something and then you ask people, "Why do you think this is good or bad?"
比如你設計了一樣東西，然后問人們，“你為什么說它好，或者壞？”
Or if you're a journalist asking a politician, "So, why did you make this decision?"
或者如果你是一個記者，你問一個政治家，“你為什么要做這個決定？”
Or if indeed you are a politician and try to explain why a certain decision was made.
或者你就是一個政治家，并且嘗試解釋做出某一決定的原因。
So this may all seem a bit disturbing.
這一切看起來會有些讓人不安。
But if you want to look at it from a positive direction, it could be seen as showing,
但是如果你從一個正面的角度來看，這可能就表明，
OK, so we're actually a little bit more flexible than we think.
好吧，我們實際上比自己想的要更靈活些。
We can change our minds. Our attitudes are not set in stone.
我們可以改變我們的想法。我們的態度也不是一成不變的。
And we can also change the minds of others,
并且我們也可以改變其他人的想法，
if we can only get them to engage with the issue and see it from the opposite view.
只要讓他們深入討論問題，并從對立的角度來看。
And in my own personal life, since starting with this research
在我個人的生活中，自從我開始這個實驗。
So my partner and I, we've always had the rule that you're allowed to take things back.
我和我的合作者，我們一直遵守一項原則，就是你可以反悔。
Just because I said I liked something a year ago, doesn't mean I have to like it still.
就像我說的，一年前我喜歡的東西，并不意味著我現在還要喜歡它。
And getting rid of the need to stay consistent is actually a huge relief and makes relational life so mush easier to live.
擺脫對維持一致性的需要，其實是一個巨大的解脫，并且可以讓我們更好的經營人際關系。
Anyway, so the conclusion must be: know that you don't know yourself.
總之，結論就是：要明白你不懂你自己。
Or at least not as well as you think you do. Thanks.
或者，至少不像你想的那么了解自己。謝謝。
