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This revolution will happen one family at a time.
我相信所有的家庭都會發(fā)生這場革命。
The good news is that men in younger generations appear more eager to be real partners than men in previous generations.
好消息是，比起前輩人來，年輕一代的男性更愿意做其伴侶真正的人生搭檔。
A survey that asked participants to rate the importance of various job characteristics
一項調(diào)查請參與者挑選他們認(rèn)為最重要的職業(yè)特性，
found that men in their forties most frequently selected "work which challenges me" as very important,
40多歲的男性大多認(rèn)為最重要的是有一份“最有挑戰(zhàn)性的工作”，
while men in their twenties and thirties most frequently selected having a job with a schedule that "allows me to spend time with my family."
結(jié)果發(fā)現(xiàn)，而20多歲、30多歲的男人大多則認(rèn)為最重要的是有一份能夠在時間上“允許我和家人在一起”的工作。
If these trends hold as this group ages, it could signal a promising shift.
如果后面這個群體在年齡漸長后仍能保持這樣的想法，就預(yù)示著未來的情況很可能會發(fā)生改變。
Wonderful, sensitive men of all ages are out there.
在各個年齡階段都有善解人意、責(zé)任感強(qiáng)的好男人。
And the more women value kindness and support in their boyfriends, the more men will demonstrate it.
女性越看重男友的理解與支持，就會有越多的男性想要證明這一點。
Kristina Salen, my friend who devised the tests to screen her dates,
克里斯蒂娜·薩倫，就是我那個設(shè)計小測試來考驗?zāi)杏训呐笥眩?/div>
told me that her son insists that when he grows up, he wants to take care of his children "like Daddy does."
告訴我她兒子堅持要求自己長大后要“像爸爸那樣”照顧自己的孩子，
She and her husband were thrilled to hear this.
她和丈夫聽到后都有些吃驚。
More boys need that role model and that choice.
還有更多的男孩需要這樣的典范，以便未來也做出這樣的選擇。
As more women lean in to their careers, more men need to lean in to their families.
當(dāng)更多的女性在事業(yè)上更加進(jìn)取時，更多的男性也需要在家庭事務(wù)上更加進(jìn)取。
We need to encourage men to be more ambitious in their homes.
我們要多多鼓勵男性在家里的表現(xiàn)更加積極主動。
We need more men to sit at the table. the kitchen table.
我們需要更多的男人往桌前坐——我指的是廚房的案桌。
