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Well it did. But it turns out, it doesn't remind me of the thing I thought it would; it reminds me constantly of something else instead.
不過確實(shí)是只是讓我想起的不是我當(dāng)初希望的；而常常是其他東西，它常常讓我想起。
It actually reminds me of the most important lesson regret can teach us, which is also one of the most important lessons life teaches us.
關(guān)于遺憾的教訓(xùn)也是生命中最重要的教訓(xùn)之一。
And ironically, I think it's probably the single most important thing I possibly could have tattooed onto my body-partly as a writer, but also just as a human being.
諷刺的是，我想這可能唯一的最重要的我能把它紋到身上的東西—既是作為一名作家，也是作為一個(gè)人。
Here's the thing, if we have goals and dreams, and we want to do our best, and if we love people and we don't want to hurt them or lose them,
總之就是，如果我們有目標(biāo)和夢(mèng)想，我們想盡最大的努力或者如果我們愛一些人不希望傷害到他們或失去他們，
we should feel pain when things go wrong.
當(dāng)這些出現(xiàn)問題的時(shí)候我們理應(yīng)感到痛苦。
The point isn't to live without any regrets. The point is to not hate ourselves for having them.
問題的關(guān)鍵不是生而無悔。而是不要因后悔而厭恨自己。
The lesson that I ultimately learned from my tattoo and that I want to leave you with today is this:
我從紋身上學(xué)到的東西，我想今天跟你們分享的就是：
We need to learn to love the flawed, imperfect things that we create and to forgive ourselves for creating them.
我們應(yīng)該學(xué)會(huì)去愛我們制造出來的、不完美有缺陷的東西，并原諒自己導(dǎo)致了這樣的結(jié)果。
Regret doesn't remind us that we did badly. It reminds us that we know we can do better.
遺憾并不是要提醒我們所做的糟糕行為，而是提醒我們可以做得更好。
Thank you.
謝謝。
