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Our culture needs to find a robust image of female success that is first, not male, and second, not a white woman on the phone, holding a crying baby.
由此看來，我們的文化需要為成功的女性找到一個固有的形象。首先，她不是女人臉男人身；其次，她不是一手拿著電話、一手摟著啼哭嬰兒的白種女人。
In fact, these "bad mother with a briefcase" images are so prevalent
事實上，這類“拿著公文包的差勁母親”的形象在我們的文化中相當根深蒂固，
that writer Jessica Valenti collected them in a funny and poignant blog post called "Sad White Babies with Mean Feminist Mommies."
以至杰西卡·瓦倫蒂搜羅了一大堆資料，寫了篇既風趣幽默又讓人心酸的博文，題目是《女權主義的壞脾氣媽媽和可憐寶寶》。
Until we can get there, I fear that women will continue to sacrifice being liked for being successful.
我擔心在一個女性實現自己的目標之前，她會不斷地為之付出不受歡迎的代價。
When I first arrived at Facebook, a local blog devoted some serious pixels to trashing me.
當我最初來到臉譜網時，一個博主還頗費心思地撰寫博文來批評我。
They posted a picture of me and superimposed a gun into my hand.
他找了一張我的照片，給我手里添了一把槍，
They wrote "liar" in big red letters across my face.
用大號的紅色字母在我臉上寫上了“騙子”兩個字。
Anonymous sources labeled me "two-faced" and "about to ruin Facebook forever."
還有匿名者給我貼上了“兩面派”、“她會徹底毀了臉譜網”的標簽。
I cried. I lost some sleep. I worried that my career was over.
我為此大哭，甚至失眠，我擔心自己的事業就此完蛋了。
Then I told myself it didn't matter.
我安慰自己說不要在意這些惡意的評價，
Then everyone else told me it didn't matter — which only reminded me that they were reading these awful comments too.
每個人也都告訴我不要在意——然而這只是提醒我他們也讀到了這些可怕的評論。
I fantasized about all sorts of rejoinders, but in the end, my best response was to ignore the attacks and do my job.
我設想了所有可能的反駁之后，發現最好的回應就是無視它們，好好工作。
Arianna Huffington, founder of The Huffington Post, believes that learning to withstand criticism is a necessity for women.
《赫芬頓郵報》聯合創始人阿里安娜·赫芬頓相信，學會接受別人的批評對女性來說是必要的一步。
