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Whereas now, zoom out. Evaluation thought, irrational.
但是現在，視野變窄，評估想法，非理性的影響
And recover much more promptly. Dismissal of positives or negatives.
能更迅速地恢復。消除積極或者消極的影響
So the person who has tunnel vision doesn't see the other 618 people who are engaged or asleep.
有隧道視野的人不會去留意其他618個專心聽課或睡覺的人
The person who dismiss the positives see those but says they're unimportant; they are trivial in comparison to
忽視了積極面的人看到那些，但說他們不重要，它們很微不足道
how I just failed or what I just did wrong.
比起我的失敗或我做的錯事
So for example, and this again, something that I...a trap that I often fall into.
比如，我經常會遇到的一個困境
When I was a senior, I applied for fellowships and I got a fellowship to go to Cambridge.
我大四時申請了獎學金，我得到去劍橋的獎學金
And I got the John Elliot Fellowship.
我得的是John Elliot獎學金
And there are 4 fellowships that go to Cambridge: the John Elliot, the Fiske, um...one other...Pembroke; then there is the John Harvard fellowship.
劍橋有四個獎學金：John Elliot和Fiske還有Pembroke，還有一個是John Harvard獎學金
So I got the John Elliot, one of the 4.
我得到了John Elliot獎學金，四個之一
Immediately when I got it, I know that I got it obviously. It wasn't that I was ignoring it.
我得到后不久，我就得到消息了并不是我無視了它
But then I said why didn't I get the John Harvard fellowship.
但我想為什么沒能得到John Harvard獎學金
Now there is no difference between them except for the name.
它們之間除名字不同外沒任何區別
But that's immediately what my mind went to.
但那是我的腦袋里立刻想到的
And that, that was very important experience for me because I said "wow, look at you." and that's when I started to recognize
對我而言是很重要的經歷，因為我說，“看看你。”我在那個時候開始意識到
the importance and the power of our evaluation. And how that can determine or even ruin what should have been a celebration.
我們的評估的重要性和威力。它是怎樣決定或甚至毀掉，本該是一件值得慶祝的事
