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This put me ahead of First Lady Michelle Obama and Indian politician Sonia Gandhi. Absurd.
而且，我居然排在米歇爾·奧巴馬和索尼婭·甘地的前面，這太荒謬了。
My own mother called to say, "Well, dear, I do think you are very powerful,
我母親打電話來(lái)說(shuō)：“親愛的，我的確認(rèn)為你很有影響力，
but I am not sure you are more powerful than Michelle Obama." You think?
但跟米歇爾·奧巴馬比就很難說(shuō)了。”你認(rèn)為呢？
Far from feeling powerful, I felt embarrassed and exposed.
我真沒(méi)覺(jué)得自己有多大的影響力，反倒感覺(jué)被暴露在公眾視野里，很是窘迫。
When colleagues at Facebook stopped me in the halls to say congratulations, I pronounced the list "ridiculous."
當(dāng)臉譜網(wǎng)的同事在辦公樓里攔住我大加稱贊時(shí)，我告訴他們這個(gè)排行榜是“可笑的”。
When friends posted the link on Facebook, I asked them to take it down.
當(dāng)朋友們?cè)谀樧V網(wǎng)上發(fā)布新聞鏈接時(shí)，我請(qǐng)他們刪掉帖子。
After a few days, my longtime executive assistant, Camille Hart, summoned me into a conference room and closed the door. This was serious.
幾天后，長(zhǎng)期擔(dān)任我的執(zhí)行助理的卡米爾·哈特把我叫進(jìn)會(huì)議室，并關(guān)上門——這是一次嚴(yán)肅的談話。
She told me that I was handling the Forbes thing poorly
她告訴我，我對(duì)福布斯排行榜這件事處理得很差勁，
and that I needed to stop subjecting anyone who brought up the list to a diatribe on its absurdity.
我應(yīng)該立即停止與那些提起福布斯排行榜的人爭(zhēng)論“為什么這件事是荒謬可笑的”。
I was showing too many people how uncomfortable I felt and revealing my insecurity.
我在太多人面前表現(xiàn)出了自己的不自在和不安全感，
Instead, I needed to simply say, "Thank you."
其實(shí)，我只需要說(shuō)聲“謝謝”就可以了。
We all need colleagues like Camille, who was honest enough to point out my less-than-gracious response.
我們都需要像卡米爾這樣的同事，他們會(huì)真誠(chéng)地指出我不合宜的回應(yīng)。她是對(duì)的。
She was right. Whether the list was ridiculous or not, I didn't write it and I didn't have to react negatively to it.
不管排行榜是否荒謬，我不是發(fā)起者，也沒(méi)有必要產(chǎn)生過(guò)于負(fù)面的反應(yīng)。
I doubt a man would have felt so overwhelmed by others' perception of his power.
我懷疑，一個(gè)男人會(huì)不會(huì)因?yàn)楦械阶约涸絹?lái)越有影響力而不知所措。
