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Jennifer did nothing wrong. All she did was share a nude photo with someone she thought that she could trust.
Jennifer沒做錯什么。她不過將她的裸照分享給了她認為可以信任的人。
And yet our laws tell her that she committed a horrible crime equivalent to child pornography.
可我們的法律告訴她，她犯了和兒童色情一樣可怕的罪行。
Our gender norms tell her that by producing this nude image of herself, she somehow did the most horrible, shameful thing.
我們的性別規范告訴她，給自己拍裸照，是她做過的最為可怕、羞恥的事。
And when we assume that privacy is impossible in digital media, we completely write off and excuse her boyfriend's bad, bad behavior.
當我們覺得保護隱私在數字媒體環境下是不可能的時候，我們完全無視男朋友的不道德行為。
People are still saying all the time to victims of privacy violations,
人們還是在不停地對那些隱私受侵犯的受害者們說，
"What were you thinking? You should have never sent that image."
“你在想些什么啊？你就不該發那照片的。”
If you're trying to figure out what to say instead, try this.
如果你嘗試換種說法，試試這個。
Imagine you've run into your friend who broke their leg skiing.
想象下你碰到一個滑雪時摔斷腿的朋友。
They took a risk to do something fun, and it didn't end well.
他們當時冒險做了些好玩的動作，結果腿摔斷了。
But you're probably not going to be the jerk who says, "Well, I guess you shouldn't have gone skiing then."
但你不太可能蠢到說，“唉，我覺得你就不該去滑雪的。”
If we think more about consent, we can see that victims of privacy violations deserve our compassion,
如果我們多考慮他人是否同意，我們便能看見侵犯隱私的受害者們得到了我們的同情，
not criminalization, shaming, harassment or punishment.
而不是遭到定罪，羞辱，騷擾或是懲罰。
We can support victims, and we can prevent some privacy violations by making these legal, individual and technological changes.
我們可以支持這些受害者，通過法律，個人和科技上的改變，來防止侵權隱私的發生。
Because the problem is not sexting, the issue is digital privacy. And one solution is consent.
因為問題不在于色情信息的發送，而在于數字隱私。解決方法之一就是獲得他人的同意。
So the next time a victim of a privacy violation comes up to you, instead of blaming them, let's do this instead:
所以下次一個隱私受侵犯的人來找你的時候，不要責備他們，而是這么做：
let's shift our ideas about digital privacy, and let's respond with compassion. Thank you.
讓我們轉變我們對數字隱私的看法，并以同情作為回應。謝謝。
