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Dano Boyl asks:
達諾·博伊爾問道：
"I'm worried that my friends and I are starting to grow apart. How do I stop that from happening?"
“我很擔心我會和朋友們會漸漸產(chǎn)生隔閡。我怎么能阻止這種事情發(fā)生？”
That's a tough one.
這是個難題。
Give them a cake.
給他們一個蛋糕。
You guys should probably start hanging out more.
你們可能應(yīng)該多出去玩玩。
I guess if you're growing apart you're not talking that much, so text them, talk to them in person.
我認為，如果你們開始產(chǎn)生隔閡，那說明你們的交流不夠多，所以你要給他們發(fā)短信，面對面和他們交談。
Text them up once in a while and be like, "Hey." But not too much or it's annoying. If that makes sense.
時不時給他們發(fā)條短信，就這樣寫：“嘿。”但不要發(fā)太多短信，那樣會令他們感到很煩。如果這樣做有用的話。
Sometimes we do grow apart from our friends, but there's something that connected you guys from the beginning, so why don't you try to keep that going to, you know, enhance your friendship?
有時我們的確會和朋友產(chǎn)生隔閡，不過一開始是有東西把你們聯(lián)系到一起的，那你為什么不繼續(xù)那種聯(lián)系，增強你們的友誼呢？
Make sure that you always have contact with your friend, whether it be with some sort of interest like music or reading. Always find that common contact.
要確保一直和朋友們有聯(lián)系，無論是哪種興趣，比如音樂或閱讀。要一直尋找共同聯(lián)系。
You can talk to them about it or find new friends or go your own way.
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You can't always stop it from happening. Sometimes you just have to accept it. And maybe for a while you grow apart, and then a little while later you get back together.
你不能一直阻止這種情況發(fā)生。有時你必須要接受。也許有一段時間你們會有隔閡，但是不久之后你們又會重新聚在一起。
You will grow apart, and you can do nothing about it. But I'm sure that you will find in the future more friends.
你們會產(chǎn)生隔閡，而你什么都做不了。不過我確定你以后會交到更多朋友的。
Dano, boy, after high school, even after college, life changes. You're on your own. The friends that you're gonna keep will always be your friends, even if they're not around.
達諾，高中畢業(yè)以后，甚至是大學畢業(yè)以后，生活會發(fā)生變化。你必須靠自己。你要保持關(guān)系的朋友會一直是你的朋友，即使他們不在你身邊。
If your friends are, like, great friends and they're meant to be your friends forever, then you wouldn't be drifting apart. If you feel that they're drifting apart there's probably a reason for that. But don't try and force everyone to keep together 'cause that's just not gonna make things better at all.
如果你的朋友是真正的朋友，那他們會永遠都是你的朋友，你們不會漸漸疏遠。如果你感覺你和朋友們漸行漸遠，那可能是因為某種原因才會變成這樣。不要去強迫所有人都在一起，因為那根本不會讓情況好轉(zhuǎn)。
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