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Keira Metcalfe.
凱拉·梅特卡夫問道：
"My friends have started bullying me. What do I do?"
“我的朋友們開始欺負我了。我應該怎么辦？”
If they say something mean to you, say, "I know you are, but what am I?"
如果他們對你說了刻薄的話，你可以說：“我知道你們，那我又算什么？”
Either stand up for yourself or get new friends.
要么為自己挺身而出，要么去交新朋友。
Stop hanging out with them at school. Don't let them come to your house.
在學校不要再和他們一起玩。不要讓他們來你家玩。
You say they're your friends? Uh-uh. Friends don't hurt friends.
你說他們是你的朋友？并不是。朋友是不會傷害朋友的。
Find new friends. Get away from those bullying ones, because they're really not friends.
去交新朋友。遠離那些欺負你的人，因為他們并不是真正的朋友。
If they're bullying you, just drop them, go find some new friends, because you don't need that in your life.
如果他們欺負你，那就遠離他們，去找新朋友，因為你的生活中并不需要這樣的朋友。
If you are hurt or offended, then just don't be friends with them. Don't have that kinda negativity in your life.
如果你受到了傷害或被侮辱了，那就不要再和他們做朋友。不要讓你的生活有這種負面的事情。
Find new friends that accept you for who you are and like to be around you.
去結交新朋友，那些朋友要能接受真實的你，還要陪在你身邊。
Say, "You know what? I can find other people that aren't gonna do this to me, 'cause you guys aren't my friends." It's not what friends do.
你要跟他們說：“你們知道嗎？我可以去交不會這樣對我的朋友，因為你們并不是我的朋友。”那不是朋友會做的事情。
Say, "Hey, look, you guys are doing this to me. I feel like I'm being bullied here. I don't think it's funny what you're doing." If they're like, "Okay, hey, we're sorry," then good. If they're not, move on. Find another group of friends.
告訴他們：“你們對我做了這種事。我感覺我被欺負了。我認為你們做的事情并沒有趣。”如果他們說：“好，我們很抱歉”，那沒什么問題。但是如果他們沒有道歉，那你就要向前看。去交其他朋友。
You need to bail quit. And if it's really serious stuff, you need to talk to an adult.
你要離開他們。如果情況非常嚴重，你要告訴大人。
If they're doing it to you at school, make sure you find the closest adult, and you just let them know.
如果他們是在學校欺負了你，你要找到離你最近的大人，告訴他們。
If you feel that it's getting out of hand, I would tell your parents, tell your teachers.
如果你感覺你難以應付，我建議你告訴家長，告訴老師。
I use the method STOP. The S stands for step away. The T, tell a trusted adult. O, only okay friends first. And then P, pause and think about it.
我用的方法名為STOP。S代表遠離。T是指要告訴你信任的大人。O是只有朋友才可以。P是停下來好好想想。
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