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Essentially, what Marva Collins does is create for students what the research in resilience does is.
本質上 Marva Collins所做的 也就是心理彈性的作用就是
Create a very different model than the conventional wisdom. The paradigm shift essentially is from being a passive victim because the government is not putting enough money.
締造一個與傳統智慧不同的榜樣 范式轉移實質上是從被動接受者. 也就是政府沒有投入足夠資金
Which is an issue, not belittling it. It's important to have those external affect the internal like more resources.
這是一個問題 應該重視 用外部條件 比如資源 影響內在性格很重要
But that's not enough. From an inactive, from a passive victim, she changes her perspective to be an active agent. You are not "unteachable"
但那并不足夠 從一個不積極 被動的受害者 成為一個主動的人 她改變了看法
You can thrive. You can do well. You can succeed. And what she does, essentially.
你并非"不可教" 你可以發展 你可以做好 你可以成功 而她所做的實質上
Is take them to the extreme of continuum, because every event, every person can be situated somewhere along this continuum, I mean different places with different things.
就是把他們帶到連續體的極點 因為每件事每個人都處于連續體的某處 我是說 不同的地方和不同的事物
Think about your own life. What are you, passive victim in different situations or an active agent?
想想你自己的生活 你是哪種人? 各種情況的被動受害者還是主動者?
For example, let's say my girlfriend leaves me. I know when I was an undergrad here. This was top on my mind: girlfriends leaving me.
例如 假如說我女朋友離開了我 當我還是這里的學生的時候 我主要想的是 我女朋友要離開我了
Yes. We'll talk about that later in this semester when we get to know one another a little bit better. I'm a little bit shy at this point.
是的 那點我們以后再談 當我們熟悉彼此之后
But let's say my girlfriend leaves me. If I am the passive victim, what I experience is self-pity.
現在我有點害羞 但是假如我女朋友離開了我 如果我是被動受害者 那我只會自憐
