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In section next week when they start to meet is "how can you make this an excellent section?" "What can you do?"
首先要問的問題之一就是 "你如何讓它成為一個優秀的小組?" "你能做什么? 你能有什么貢獻?"
"what can you bring? What strength can you bring into the section so that it's an excellent section?" As opposed to blaming, other students, TF, Bush, Clinton, whoever.
"你能給小組帶來什么優勢" "讓它成為一個優秀的小組?" 而不是抱怨其他學生 組長 布什 克林頓
Taking responsibility for it. There is a wonderful story about responsibility in the book by Nathaniel Branden.
你要為它承擔責任 關于責任 有一個很好的故事 Nathaniel Branden的書里提到了
We are going to read some stuff by Nathaniel Branden when we talk about self-esteem. Nathaniel Branden talks about six pillars.
當我們談到自尊時 我們要讀點Nathaniel Branden的東西 Nathaniel Branden談到了六根支柱
Six important pillars in self-esteem. One of those pillars is self-responsibility. People who have high self-esteem take responsibility.
自尊的六根重要支柱 其中一根就是自我負責 自尊心強的人會承擔責任
People who want to cultivate high self-esteem and create confidence, take responsibility for their lives and so on.
想培養高自尊心 培養自信的人會承擔責任 承擔生活的責任等等
So in his workshop, one of the main things that he says there in his book is that understanding that you have to take responsibility for your life is recognizing understanding.
在他的研討會上 他在書中說到的 主要一件事就是 明白你必須 為生活承擔責任就是理解
That no one is coming. No one is coming to the knight in shining armor who will take you to the happily-ever-after land.
沒人會來 沒人會來. 穿著閃亮鎧甲的騎士 不會來帶你到幸福樂園
