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And the reason why I mentioned all these places is because this is cross-cultural study. People mostly ask themselves.
我之所以要提到那些地方 是因為這是跨文化的研究 大多數人都會問自己
"what are my weaknesses? What do I need to improve?" Very often to the exclusion of "what are my strengths? What are my virtues? What am I good at?"
我的弱點是什么?我要改善什么? 通常排除了 我的長處是什么?我擅長于什么?
And if the only question that we ask ourselves are the only questions that are "what are my weaknesses? Deficiencies?"
如果我們問自己的 唯一問題是 我的缺點 我的不足是什么?
Then the only thing we'll see in ourselves are weaknesses and deficiencies. And as far as we are concerned.
那么我們能看到的 只有自己的缺點和不足 在我們看來
The good things our strengths, our passions, our virtues the wonderful things within us do not exist. Just like as far as you are concerned.
好的東西 我們的長處 熱情 美德 我們身上的美好事物并不存在 就像在你們看來
The children on the bus did not exist. Now I ask you, could a person who only or primarily focuses on weaknesses.
巴士上的小孩并不存在 現在我問你們 一個主要關注缺點的人
And does not see, does not appreciate their strength, their passions, their virtues.
看不到 也不欣賞他們的長處 熱情 他們的美德的人
Can a person like that experience high levels of self-respect, self-confidence, happiness? And we wonder, why do so many relationships fail?
一個這樣的人會有很高的自尊心 自信心和很多的快樂嗎? 我們還奇怪 為什么這么多婚姻會失敗?
And we wonder, why depression, anxiety and low self-esteem are increasing so much? The intentions are there.
我們還奇怪 為什么抑郁 焦慮 以及自尊心低落的情況增加了這么多? 動機是有的
