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We need to also appreciate what is working, to also focus on, metaphorically speaking, the children on a bus. Stavros and Torres in the wonderful book on relationships.
我們還要欣賞起作用的東西 用比喻的意義上說 還要留意巴士上的小孩 Stavros和Torres在一本關于婚姻的好書里說
"We see what we look for and we miss much of what we are not looking for even though it is there. Our experience of the world is heavily influenced.
"我們會看到要尋找的東西" "錯失不去尋找的東西 雖然它在那里" "我們的閱歷"
By where we place our attention. " Questions very often create reality. The first important thing to understand about questions.
"被我們的關注點深深地影響了" 問題經常會締造現實 理解什么是問題的首要事情
Is that we need to understand the questions. And here I want to defer to a very important philosopher, a 20th and 21st century philosopher.
就是我們要理解那些問題 在這點我同意一位重要哲學家 一位20世紀和21世紀的哲學家
Who illustrates the importance of understanding questions Homer Simpson. If you can just turn down the voice, the sound a little bit.
他闡明了理解問題的重要性 荷馬辛普森 能不能把聲音調低一點
Because this is very loud. Thank you. The Simpsons Now we're gonna run a few tests.
因為它非常大聲 謝謝 辛普森一家 現在我們要做幾項測試
This is a simple lie detector. I'll ask you a few yes or no questions and you just answer truthfully.
這是一臺簡單的測謊儀 我會問你幾個問題 你回答是或否 你要老實回答
Do you understand? Yes. Love it. Love it.
明白嗎? 明白 很精彩
So the first step is really understanding the question. But once we understand it, it is also important to know what questions are we going to ask.
所以第一步是真正理解問題 但是我們理解問題之后 知道我們要問什么問題也很重要
