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What happened? I mean these are not very difficult questions.
怎么回事? 這是說 這些并不是非常難的問題
Even the final of positive psychology is going to be difficult than that. I mean, really. A lot more. Why?
就算是積極心理學的期末考 都要比它難 真的 難很多 為什么?
Well the reason is I asked you a certain question, and that question directed you to a certain part of reality. And that's a good thing.
原因是 我問了你們某個特定的問題 那個問題讓你注意現實的某一部分 這是件好事
Because if we were focusing on everything all the time, that wouldn't be a good thing. We would be distracted by every single noise.
因為如果我們總是專注于一切事情 那就不是件好事 每種噪音都會讓我們分心
By every single movement. So it's a good thing that we can focus. However, we also need to remember.
所有物體運動都會讓我們分心 所以我們能集中注意力是件好事 但是 我們也要記得
The consequences of this ability to focus that is not always good it's not always helpful. Because as far as you were concerned.
這種集中精神的能力帶來的后果 卻不總是好事或者有益的 因為在你們看來
There were no children on the bus. As far as you were concerned, there were only geometric shapes.
巴士上沒有小孩 在你們看來 上面只有幾何圖形
In other words, my question, for most of you, created a very specific reality, a reality which there were geometric shapes.
換句話說 我的問題給你們大多數人 制造了一種特定的現實 一種只有幾何圖形
And no children on the bus. Now that has very important implications. Think about the following question: what question is mostly asked.
巴士上沒有小孩的現實 這有著非常重要的含義 想想以下的問題 蜜月期過后
By couples beyond the honeymoon phase? So they go through the honeymoon phase whether it's a month, a year or sometimes two years.
夫妻間問的最多的問題是什么? 他們度過蜜月期之后 不管是一個月 一年還是兩年
