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In the context of personal and professional development, you need to know one of the worst things you can do is something that annoys or bugs another person.
在人際關(guān)系和職業(yè)發(fā)展環(huán)境中，你要知道，你做的最不好的事就是去煩擾別人。
Upon reading this, you may feel one of two ways,
通過這篇文章，你可能會體會到一下兩種方式之一：
Why should I care if I’m bugging anybody? I can’t please everybody!
我為什么要在乎我是否在打擾別人?我又不能取悅所有人!
What do I do that bugs people and how does this affect their view of me?
我做的哪些事會影響別人?別人又會怎么看我呢?
You might have guessed by now that I believe you should care. Here’s why:
我想你現(xiàn)在應(yīng)該已經(jīng)猜到了我會說你要在乎，原因如下：
When you have a habit that bothers other people and do nothing about it, you brand yourself as someone who is inconsiderate. Do inconsiderate people win friends, influence people, or get promotions?
如果你有煩擾別人的習慣，并且還不愿改，那你在別人眼中就是一個自私自利的人。這樣的人能有朋友，能有影響力或者能得到提升嗎?
Most people don’t even realize that what they’re doing may be bugging others. Quite plainly, this creates a big ugly pimple on their reputation!
大多數(shù)人甚至都沒意識到他們的所作所為正在煩擾別人。這是很淺顯易懂的，這樣的人肯定不會得到什么好評!
Finally, a carefree attitude of “It’s a free country. So what if you don’t like it?” will cause you to end up unloved, unappreciated, unpopular, and unhappy. Remember, it’s a small world.
最后，那些懷有“這是個自由的國度，你不喜歡又怎樣?”這種不負責任的態(tài)度的人是不會招人喜歡、欣賞、歡迎的，也不會幸福的。記住，這個世界很小。
Are You Ready to Learn About Yourself?
準備好了解自己了嗎?
The first step toward ridding yourself of habits that others may find distasteful or offensive and preserving your reputation is to learn what you may be doing that bugs other people. The easiest way to do this is to simply ask. It maybe awkward or even slightly embarrassing, but it won’t kill you.
想要擺脫那些讓人不快的冒犯性習慣并贏得好評，第一步就是要知道你的所作所為會不會影響別人。最簡單的方法就是去問別人，這可能有點奇怪甚至會有些尷尬，但還不足以要你的命。
