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Stevie McSteverson asks:
史蒂維·麥克史蒂文森問道：
"My GF doesn't like my friends or for me to hang out with them. How do I handle this?"
“我女朋友不喜歡我的朋友們，也不喜歡我和朋友們出去玩。我要怎么解決這個問題？”
Don't hang out with them at the same time.
不要同時和他們一起出去。
You sneak out! Just say, "I'll be back soon. I'm going to the store."
你可以偷偷出去！你就說，“我很快就回來。我只是去趟商店。”
If you still want to hang out with your friends, just hang out with them, but don't let your girlfriend know.
如果你想和朋友們出去玩，那就和他們出去玩，不過不要讓你的女朋友知道。
Invite your friends over and not telling her. Just say, "Oh, sorry. I'm sick."
邀請你的朋友們來家里玩，但是不要告訴你女朋友。你就說，“哦，抱歉。我生病了。”
Tell your friends to make your girlfriend like your friends.
告訴你的朋友們，讓你的女朋友喜歡上你的朋友們。
Make her friends your friends, and kind of slide past the ones that you've got.
讓她的朋友成為你的朋友，你就可以換掉以前的朋友了。
Find a girlfriend who likes your friends.
找個喜歡你朋友的女朋友。
You're gonna have to choose one or the other. One's got to go.
你要做出選擇，選女朋友還是選朋友。只能兩者選其一。
You have your friends before you had your girlfriend, so I think it's important for you to stick with your friends.
你在認識女朋友之前就認識的你的朋友們，所以我認為對你來說重要的是和朋友們在一起。
Drop her. Cut her off instantly. If she doesn't like your friends, she doesn't like you 'cause your friends are a reflection of you.
甩了她。馬上和她分手。如果她不喜歡你的朋友，那就意味著她不喜歡你，因為你的朋友們能反映出你這個人的情況。
Talk to her about it. Figure out what the problem is with your friends, and then, just ultimately, try to work it out.
和她談談。找出你朋友們的問題，然后解決問題。
Just make sure you spend some time with her, and some time with your friends. If she's just trying to cut you off from your friends, maybe you have to find another girlfriend.
確保你和女朋友的相處時間，同時也要確保你和朋友們的相處時間。如果她只是讓你離開你的朋友們，那可能你要再找個女朋友了。
At some point you need to pick your friends over the girlfriend. Bros before beautiful, amazing women. That's how they say that, right?
有時你需要選擇朋友們，放棄女朋友。兄弟比漂亮迷人的女性更重要。他們是這么說的，對吧？
Vanessa Hall.
凡妮莎·霍爾問道。
"How can I be a Divergent?"
“我怎么能成為分歧者？”
I don't know what that is.
我不知道那是什么。
I really don't know since I don't know what a Divergent is. It sounds like something from The Hunger Games or Star Wars.
我真的不知道答案，因為我不知道分歧者是什么。聽起來像是《饑餓游戲》或《星球大戰(zhàn)》中的人物。
Be yourself 'cause everyone is different in their own way.
做你自己，因為所有人以自己的方式來看都是與眾不同的。
Be yourself. The most clich statement ever, I know, but if you just give everybody 100% of who you are, you are automatically a Divergent.
做你自己。我知道這是陳詞濫調(diào)，不過如果你給別人展示100%的自己，那你就會自動成為分歧者。
Be courageous, brave, and not afraid to like, jump off of things.
要勇敢無畏，不要害怕跳下去。
Think independently, enjoy your independent thought, but don't express it too publicly, otherwise you could get hurt.
獨立思考，享受你的獨立思想，不過不要公開表達出來，否則你會受傷的。
You'd have to have five different skills balanced evenly, and that's kind of unlikely, so what you might want to do is just figure out, "Okay, which skills from each group can I best use?" And then that way you can be a Divergent.
你不需要具備五種均衡技能，這是不可能的，你要做的是弄清楚，“好，我可以把哪種技能發(fā)揮到極致？”然后這個技能就能使你成為分歧者。
No but yeah asks:
No but yeah問題：
"I took a career test that tells me I should be a teacher, but I'm not interested. What should I do?"
“我做了個職業(yè)測評，結(jié)果是我應該成為老師，可是我不想當老師。我應該怎么做？”
Be a teacher! My wife's a teacher. She loves it.
當老師吧！我妻子就是老師。她熱愛這個職業(yè)。
Give being a teacher a try for a few months. If it doesn't work out, then take another career test or switch jobs.
可以先當幾個月老師試試。如果效果不好，可以再做次職業(yè)測評，或者換工作。
Don't become a teacher. Don't become a teacher if you really don't love explaining things, feeling frustrated, and love kids.
不要當老師。如果你不喜歡解釋東西，感覺沮喪，不喜歡孩子，那就不要當老師。
You should take the test again and see what you could get again.
你應該再做次職業(yè)測評，看看是什么結(jié)果。
You are allowed to be something that's not a teacher.
除了老師，你還可以做其他工作。
Those tests don't run your life and if you don't want to be a teacher, don't be a teacher.
這些測評不能掌控你的人生，如果你不想當老師，那就不要做老師。
Choose what you wanna do because a career test is just a test, and your career is your life.
選擇你想做的工作，因為職業(yè)測試只是一種測評，可是你的職業(yè)是你的人生。
It might mean you have the qualities of being a leader, or a teacher. It doesn't mean you have to be in a school or a classroom.
這個結(jié)果可能是說你有成為領導或老師的特質(zhì)。并不是說你一定要在學校里當老師。
Here's the deal on career tests: it's just to kind of let you know what your strengths are, and what you might possibly enjoy doing. Now the thing is this: if you can be a teacher, that means you have lots of skills. And here's the deal: people who teach, they can do anything.
這是有關職業(yè)測試的事情：這只是一種讓你了解你的能力還有你感興趣的事情的方法。現(xiàn)在的情況是：如果你可以當老師，這意味著你有很多技能。也就是說：教授知識的人可以做任何事。
Don't take a job as a teacher. The test, it doesn't define your whole future.
不要選擇老師這個職業(yè)。這種測評不能決定你的未來。
It's not gonna be like this needs to be your career, otherwise imminent death. You can find another career. Just figure out what you want to do and not what a test is telling you to do.
不是說你一定要選擇老師這個工作，否則你就會面臨死亡。你可以找其他工作。弄清楚你喜歡做的事情，不要讓一個測評告訴你應該做什么。
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