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To identify the rule behind any decision you make, ask yourself, “What is my basis or justification for this decision?” The answer is one of the rules in your rulebook. Try it out.
確定你做出任何決定，背后的規則,問問自己,我做這一決定的基礎或理由是什么?答案就是你生活守則里的那些準則。試一試。
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What is critical to comprehend is that all the decisions you make that ultimately influence your success, happiness, and fulfillment are based on your rulebook.
理解問題的關鍵是,你所有的決定,最終影響你的成功,幸福和滿足，而這些都基于你的生活守則。
If your career is not headed in the direction you would like, the answer can be found in your rulebook.If your marriage is not going as you had hoped, the answer is located in your rulebook.If your relationships are not growing and developing, the answer once again can be found in your rulebook.
If you are not happy, guess what! The answer can be found in your rulebook.If your life is not fulfilling, you’re right, the answer is in your rulebook.The reason all the answers are in your rulebook is because you are where you are at this very point in your life, based on the choices you have made. All these decisions are based on your rules.
如果你的事業不是朝著你希望的方向前進,你的生活守則中可以找到答案。如果你的婚姻不如你所愿,答案位于你的生活守則。如果你的人際關系沒有增長，沒有發展,可以再次在生活守則里找到答案。如果你不快樂,你猜怎么著!你的生活守則中可以找到答案。如果你對生活不滿足,你對了,答案是你的生活守則。所有的答案都在你的生活守則，其原因是因為你的生活中，在這個節點，你所處的位置,都是基于自己的選擇。所有這些決定都是基于你的守則。
If you had a business that went bad because you didn’t do your research, then your rulebook does not put an emphasis on research.If you continue to show up late for your appointments, then your rulebook does not have a strong position on respecting other people’s time.If you’re constantly broke, then your rulebook doesn’t include living below your means.If you are overweight, then is there a chance your rulebook puts a greater emphasis on your selfish desires rather than on proper eating, exercising, and taking care of your health?If you’re not challenging yourself to get better, then your rulebook doesn’t believe that “getting better” is important.If you are not someone who pushes yourself to do the things you know you should do, then your rulebook does not place a high value on discipline.Your entire life today is the sum total result of the quality of your choices and decisions to this moment. If you are not happy with any part of your life, it is up to you to begin to make different choices and better decisions and the place to start is by questioning the underlying rules behind your decision.
如果你是生意人，因為沒有做市場調研，而導致生意慘淡，你的生活守則里沒有突出市場研究的重要性。如果你繼續約會遲到,那么你的生活守則里，沒有強調尊重別人時間的重要性。如果你經常破產,那么你的生活守則不包括你生活應當量入為出。如果你超重,那么是不是很可能，你的生活守則更重視你自私的欲望而不是適當的飲食,鍛煉,照顧你的健康? 如果你沒有挑戰自我，自我改進,那么你的生活守則，不相信“提升自我”是很重要的?！∫粋€人，如果不強迫自己去做，自己知道應該做的,那么你的生活守則不重視紀律。你今天的整個生活，是你全部的選擇和此刻決定的總和。如果你不滿意生活的任何一部分,由你自己開始做出不同的選擇，做更好的決策，開始質疑做出決定，背后的潛在規則。
You are the author of your own rulebook. You can rewrite those rules that are holding you back from becoming the person you want to be and from achieving the happiness and success you desire.
你是自己生活守則的創作者。你可以重寫那些阻礙你成為你想成為的人的規則,重寫那些阻礙實現你想要的幸福和成功的規則。
