評(píng)論
打印
It's time we moved beyond Mars and Venus,
男人來自火星，女人來自金星的時(shí)代已經(jīng)過去
because the truth is that men are from Africa
現(xiàn)在所有人都知道真相，男人來自非洲
and women are from Africa.
女人也來自非洲
Thank you.
謝謝大家
Thank you. Thank you.
謝謝，謝謝
So a question.
問個(gè)問題
It's so perplexing, trying to use arguments about evolutionary history
要將進(jìn)化歷史方面的證據(jù)轉(zhuǎn)化為現(xiàn)今人類行動(dòng)的依據(jù)
to turn that into what we ought to do today.
這是一件非常令人費(fèi)解的事情
Someone could give a talk and say,
有些人演講可能會(huì)說
look at us, we've got these really sharp teeth
看我們，我們有這些尖利的牙齒
and muscles and a brain that's really good at throwing weapons,
還有肌肉和腦，非常擅于投擲武器
and if you look at lots of societies around the world,
因此你可以在世界上很多地方
you'll see very high rates of violence.
看到高暴力事件發(fā)生率
Nonviolence is a choice like vegetarianism,
非暴力就像素食主義，是一種選擇
but it's not who you are.
但你不一定要像那樣
How is that different from the talk you gave?
你的演講同這有什么區(qū)別
Well first of all,
首先
the evidence for high levels of violence in prehistory is very debatable.
史前暴力水平有多高，在證據(jù)上還有爭(zhēng)議
But that's just an example.
這只是一個(gè)例子
Certainly, you know, lots of people say to me,
顯然，很多人都跟我說
just because we lived a certain way in the past
我們過去以某種方式生活
doesn't mean we should live that way now, and I agree with that.
并不意味著我們現(xiàn)在要以這種方式生活，我很贊同
Everyone has to respond to the modern world.
每個(gè)人都需要去適應(yīng)現(xiàn)代世界
But the body does have its inherent evolved trajectories.
但人體有一些固有的進(jìn)化軌跡
And so you could live on McDonald's and milkshakes,
你可以以麥當(dāng)勞和奶昔為食
but your body will rebel against that. We have appetites.
但你的身體會(huì)反抗，我們有欲望
I think it was Schopenhauer who said, a person can do what they want
我記得叔本華曾說過，一個(gè)人可以做他想要做的
but not want what they want.
但不能意志他想要意志的
And so what I'm arguing against
因此，我要反駁的是
is the shame that's associated with desires.
同欲望相關(guān)的一些羞恥感
It's the idea that if you love your husband or wife
例如，雖然你愛你的丈夫或是妻子
but you still are attracted to other people, there's something wrong with you,
但你還被其他人所吸引，你會(huì)覺得自己犯了錯(cuò)
there's something wrong with your marriage, something wrong with your partner.
會(huì)覺得婚姻出了問題，會(huì)覺得配偶出了問題
I think a lot of families are fractured by unrealistic expectations
我認(rèn)為很多家庭都受到了這種非現(xiàn)實(shí)預(yù)期的困擾
that are based upon this false vision of human sexuality.
而這種預(yù)期是對(duì)于人類性的錯(cuò)誤觀念
That's what I'm trying to get at.
這就是我要講的觀點(diǎn)
Thank you. Communicated powerfully. Thanks a lot.
謝謝你，很有力的論點(diǎn)，非常感謝
Thank you, Chris.
也謝謝你，克里斯
