It takes us only seconds to make a cup of coffee, minutes to write and send an e-mail, just hours to cross a continent by air. Then why can't we decide to marry each other after we knew each other for 7 hours?
幾秒鐘沖一杯咖啡,幾分鐘寫一封郵件,幾小時甚至可以完成洲際飛行。那么,相識7小時后就決定結(jié)婚,又有什么不可以的呢?
People who choose a "flash marriage" believe there is no time for marathon dating when there are so many other things to be done. In addition, the issue of love is not an affair that can benguaranteed (保證,承諾) forever. Even after dating for five or eight years, nobody is confident that the love will be everlasting. If they spend a long time testing the affection, it's just to put obstacles on their own way. If the affection can't go on forever, both sides will be deeply hurt and no one can relive their past youth.
選擇"閃婚"的人認為,這個時代有太多的事情要他們?nèi)リP(guān)注和投入,已經(jīng)沒有時間去跑戀愛"馬拉松"了,況且,現(xiàn)在的感情也沒有一勞永逸的,不是談了五年八年就能保證白頭到老的。如果再花費大量的時間和精力去反復驗證愛情,就是人為地給自己設(shè)置障礙。一旦愛情走不下去了,雙方受傷不說,誰能為消逝的青春"買單"呢?
Therefore, if you fall in love with someone, marry him/her. Other things can be thought about later.No matter whether it is for dating or marriage, love is the most important thing.
所以,遇到有感覺的,那就趕快結(jié)婚吧,至于其他的事情,慢慢再說。戀愛也好,結(jié)婚也好,最重要的還是愛情。