The transnational love is advocating(宣揚) "love doesn't have boundaries", which has broken the traditional views of love. It promotes true love, which is just to the young generation's liking. According to the idea , affection is only the business of the couple in love, and needn't be explained to others, let alone abide by any exterior rules.
跨國戀倡導的"無國界愛情"打破了人們關于愛情的一切固有觀念。它宣揚的"尋求真愛",正好符合年輕人的標準。愛情只與相愛的兩個人有關,不需要向其他人做任何解釋,更不需要符合任何外在的準則。
However, the mixed marriages are far more complicated than the mere love. Especially for the 1980s generation, due to their different family backgrounds, cultures, customs and social status, many disagreements can arise. As the only children at home, the majority of them turn out self-centered. Because of the lack of adequate understanding of marriage, language, culture, ideas, habits and customs, more and more mixed marriages are on the verge of breaking.
然而,與簡單的愛情相比,跨國婚姻就要復雜得多。特別是對于年輕的80后來說,由于家庭背景、文化、習慣和社會地位的不同,很多矛盾不可避免。作為家中的獨生子女,他們大多數比較看重自己的想法。正是由于對雙方婚姻、語言、文化、思想、習慣、風俗等缺乏必要的了解,很多跨國婚姻已是搖搖欲墜。
Of course, in marriage, mutual respect and understanding are taking over the dominance of love. Both sides must adopt an inclusive heart so as to achieve harmony.
婚姻生活中,真正占主導位置的常常是夫妻雙方的相互尊重和理解,而不再是簡單的愛情。只要雙方都有一顆包容的心,跨國婚姻也能和諧美滿。