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Levels of Communication 2
交際面面觀
showing pictures of your kids, and exchanging personal history.
秀你孩子們的照片，和概括性的自我介紹。
Factual communication is relatively safe and most do this well.
事實溝通是相對安全的和更有可能做好的方式。
eg: I'm majoring in business administration.
例如：我的專業是商業管理。
I'm married with three children, two sons and one daughter.
我結婚了，有三個孩子，二個兒子一個女兒。
Did you watch the basketball game last night?
昨晚你看籃球比賽了嗎？
What did you do in class last Friday?
上周五你在教室做什么了？
Peak communication: Coming together with another in an extraordinary way.
共鳴性溝通：以不同尋常的方式一起溝通。
Two individuals experience a transformation
兩個人都有所轉變。
when they are sharing exactly the same emotion with the same level of intensity.
當他們以相同感情進行情感交流時，
It's as if, for the moment, two souls come into one.
就好像，在那一刻兩個靈魂合二為一了。
Peak communication is rare, even among close friends and family members.
即使是在親密的朋友和家人之間，共鳴性溝通是難得的事。
eg: I love you. I love you too.
例如：我愛你。我也愛你。
I'm so angry with you. I'm so angry with you as well.
你太讓我生氣了。你也同樣讓我生氣。
I'm glad that we were able to fight long enough to get this resolved.
我很高興我們爭執那么久終于把問題解決了。
Yes, I feel exactly the same way, glad that we communicated collaboratively.
是的，我也這么覺得，真高興我們能那樣溝通。
I'm scared. I'm scared too.
我害怕。我也害怕。
