評論
打印
Levels of Communication 3
交際面面觀
Evaluative communication: Offering opinions, ideas and judgments to others.
評價交流：告訴別人自己的觀點，主意和評價。
This is risky business because the odds are that others will give their own evaluations, which may be different from yours.
這是件冒險的事，因為你的評價和別人對自己的評價可能會不同。
When people always use evaluative communication, they must be prepared for conflict.
當人們開始評價性的對話時，他們一定是為沖突做好了準備。
Many U.S. Americans enjoy sharing at this level and feel that disagreeing with others is useful and invigorating.
很多美國人都樂于這樣交談，并且覺得意見不一致才是有用的交流，也會讓人精力充沛。
Unfortunately, many of us don't use evaluative communication with a high level of competence.
不幸的是，我們大多數人并不能進行這樣的交流，也就無法提高自己談話的水平。
It's important to consider the value of critical and creative thinking, as well as the relational meanings of messages that are exchanged.
評論性，創造性的思考，以及可以進行信息交換的交流都是很重要的。
When using evaluative communication, consider carefully the importance of descriptive and responsible expressions.
當我們進行評價性交流時，仔細考慮描述性和負責的表達方式的重要性。
Try to avoid warnings, sarcasms, and nonverbal put-downs (e.g., rolling your eyes in response to another's comments).
試著避免警告，挖苦，和語言上的奚落（如，滾動你的眼睛表示對另一個的評論的回應）。
eg: Of all my children, my daughter is the better athlete.
我所有的孩子中，我的女兒是最好的運動員。
I thought that movie was excellent, particularly with the surprising ending.
我覺得那部電影非常精彩，尤其是令人意外的結局。
I'm not convinced that your argument is well supported.
我認為你的觀點并不能得到很好的支持。
I agree with you!
我同意！
