We've kind of grown apart in the past few years,我們在前些年都過著分開的日子

grow apart朝不同方向生長

The two halves if the main branch have grown apart, forming separate trees.

樹干長出了兩個分枝，形成了分開的兩棵樹。

Sadly, after eight years of marriage they had grown apart.

不幸的是，結婚八年后，他們的感情日漸淡漠了。

Somebody's got to put a stop to this.一定要有人去阻止他啊

get to開始；達到（某一階段）

I intend to get to the bottom of it.

這件事我打算尋根究底。

I try to get to work before the rush hour starts.

我試圖在繁忙時間之前去上班。

put a stop結束

We must put a stop to the fight.

我們必須制止這場毆斗。

We ought to find some way to put a stop to that matter.

我們得想個辦法終止這件事情。