No.4 Guan Ren
Until now, people in some northern places stil call their husbands"Guanren", which means the "bridegroom". It also represents that men have certain position in the ancient family.
No.4 官人。
到了宋代,宮廷中出現了“官家”一詞。平民百姓中有了“官人”這一稱謂。有的妻子稱自己的丈夫為“官人”。至今,北方民間仍對新郎稱為“新郎官”。從這個稱呼也可看出隨著宋代理學的興盛,男人的家庭地位也上了一個新臺階。官當然是管人嘛,那家里的官人當然就是管家里的老婆孩子了。