4. Are You a Conversation Narcissist?
Conversation Narcissists love nothing more than to talk about themselves. The only reason they ask the other person a question like, “How was your weekend?” is so they can circle it back around to them again, “that’s nice…let me tell you about what happened to me…” They rarely inquire seriously about the other person or ask follow up questions.
Suggestion: This is easy to fix, be genuinely interested in the other person. When someone tells you something, keep the focus on them, ask follow up questions, recall previous comments the person said, etc.
你是一個以自我為中心的談話者嗎?
以自我為中心的談話者只喜歡說自己的事。他們問別人問題的唯一原因,如“你周末過得怎么樣?”,只是因此可以轉個彎回來說自己的事。“這可真不錯呀……讓我告訴你我遇到什么事了……”他們很少認真的詢問別人,或繼續剛才的問題。
建議:這很容易解決,就是要真正的對其他人感興趣。如果有人告訴你一些事情,持續關注它,問些關于它們的問題,想想剛才這個人所說的話等等。