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Q: I treat my co-workers politely and warmly at work. But many of them don’t like me. I don’t know why and feel distressed.
問：我在工作中對待同事既友好又熱情，但他們中的許多人卻不喜歡我。我不知道為什么并且覺得很苦惱。
A: Have you ever thought about your own attitude at work? Perhaps that is the reason why people do not like you. For many of us it is easy to look at others and blame them instead of ourselves. After all,we are human.
答：你思考過你自己的工作態度嗎？也許這正是人們不喜歡你的原因。對于我們許多人來說，很容易看到他人的錯誤并責怪他們，而不是從自身找原因。畢竟我們都是凡人。
When something doesn’t go the way it is supposed to at work, “Oh, so-and-so didn’t do this and that”. Often times you forget your own roles that you did not perform. Your attitude is looking at other’s fault first before you point the accusing finger at yourself.
當一些本該完成的工作偏離了正常軌道時，“噢，那個誰和那個誰沒有做這個和那個”。你經常會忘記你自己沒有履行的職責，而更愛先挑其他人的錯誤，其次才輪到自己。
Perhaps when you realize that people at work do not like you, it is time to look at your own attitude. Have the wisdom and will power to know that you can make a positive change. When you improve yourself, you increase the chances of career success.
也許當你意識到在工作中人們不喜歡你時，你應審視自己的工作態度。憑借智慧和毅力找到你能做出的積極改變。當你完善了自我，邁向職業成功的機會就會增加。
