-- Find the right time and place to discuss an annoying habit. Right after work or as your spouse is drifting off to sleep is not it. You might want to send your partner an email during the day asking to discuss a certain behavior later.
-- 找一個合適的時間和地點討論令人心煩的習慣。伴侶剛剛下班或者正要入睡都不是合適的時間。你可以在白天給伴侶發一封電子郵件,要求晚些時候討論一下某個行為。