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-- Discuss the behavior, not your spouse's personality. This allows your partner to change. And be careful to use the word 'I' and not 'you.' (It is helpful to say: 'I get upset when you leave your underwear on the bathroom floor.' It's not beneficial to say, 'You are a slob,' even if it's true.)
-- 討論行為，而不是伴侶的個性。這會讓你的伴侶有所改變、此外，小心使用“我”而不是“你”這個字眼。（如果你說，“你總是把內褲放在洗手間地板上讓我感到心煩”，就會很有幫助。反之，如果你說，“你真是邋遢得不行”，即便這是事實，也于事無補。
