15. Use the career center. These people are experts at positioning you in the workforce and their only job is to get you a job. How can you not love this place? If you find yourself thinking the people at your college's career center are idiots, it's probably a sign that you really, really don't know what you're doing.
第十五,使用職業(yè)咨詢服務(wù)機(jī)構(gòu)。美國大學(xué)一個(gè)重要部門就是求職咨詢機(jī)構(gòu)。專業(yè)人員幫你分析自己的長短,以及就業(yè)市場(chǎng),幫助你準(zhǔn)備面試,修改申請(qǐng)信。
16. Develop a strong sense of self by dissing colleges that reject you. Happy people have ``a more durable sense of and aren't as buffeted by outside events," writes Sonja Lyubomirsky of the University of California-Riverside. When bad things happen, don't take it personally. This is how the most successful business people bounce back quickly from setback.
第十六,被拒后應(yīng)該坦然以對(duì)。要自己定義自己,不要用外在指標(biāo)定義自己。