3 Understand your thought process. Is your natural response to be angry, sad or confused? Recognize how you react.
4 Understand your motives. Do you follow certain guidelines or are you rebellious in nature?
弄清自己的思路,什么時候你會很生氣,什么時候你會很難受,又是什么時候你覺得很困惑?
理清自己的動機。你做事有原則么,還是出于直覺?