We can easily stumble through life without considering how our lack of manners and sloppiness affect others. To be elegant is not to be snobbish, but rather to be polished, charitable and discreet. Making the effort to be elegant means caring about how our manners and appearance affect others.
或許,我們在生活中常常會某些女性看見有這樣的現象,也許她的行為并不會影響到任何人,但是讓人見了卻是十分不舒服的。女人的優雅并不這么簡單,有些優雅,卻是需要你關注細節的:
Step 1 Practice the art of conversation. Create a list of intriguing topics that you'd feel comfortable talking about with others. Even if you know little about a subject, you can pose questions for others to respond to.
無論坐在哪里,都希望你不要盤腿大坐或者翹起“二郎腿”,請保持坐姿盡量優雅但又不會露點。