We are all human and have flaws. Even if your physical appearance, unique personality, or social skills aren't what you wish they were, that doesn't have to stop you from being confident. You are beautiful inside and out so you should love yourself unconditionally. Here's how to believe in yourself.
每個(gè)人都有自己的長處和短處,別人經(jīng)常擁有我們所缺乏的所謂的長處,但這些并不能阻止我們自己的自信。
1.Make a list of special talents you have, or things you do that are good. Focusing on your attributes helps distract you from those parts of yourself that you think are flawed. It doesn't have to be a specific skill or activity either; it can be an approach or an attitude that you champion through life. Do you always stay calm, cool and collected, even in hurried situations? Are you very patient with people? Do you always see the humorous side of things? Are you always there for your friends?
列出自己的長處。注意自己的長處就會(huì)讓你忘記自己認(rèn)為缺乏的地方。這個(gè)長處不一定有多么地與眾不同,只要是你在生活中有所成就的即可。譬如,面對吵雜的環(huán)境,你是不是能做到心靜如水呢?你是不是很有耐心呢?你是不是經(jīng)常為自己的朋友著想?