Listen to Them 傾聽他們說話

It's easy to talk over people or to tune out most of what they're saying whilst reading the newspaper or chatting online with friends. Listen actively to your partner--when they want to talk, put down what you're doing, and focus all your attention on them. Listen for what they don't say; unvoiced concerns or worries, or hints at what they'd really like. Nod and make eye-contact to show that you're paying attention。
讀報紙、上網聊天的時候很容易和家人搭訕，試著在他們說話的時候放下手中的事情，全神貫注去聽他們講話。試著領會他們沒說出口的的心事，了解他們喜歡什么。點頭、眼神交流都表示你聽得很專心。