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Chinese ceremonies
The seventh day of the seventh lunar month is the only Chinese festival devoted to love in the Lunar calendar.
Unlike St. Valentine''s Day in Western countries there is not so much emphasis on giving chocolates, flowers and kisses. Instead, Chinese girls prepare fruits, melons and incense（熏香） as offerings to Zhi Nu, the weaving maiden, praying to acquire high skills in needlecraft（裁縫）, as well as hoping to find satisfactory husbands.
In the evening, people sit outdoors to observe the stars. Chinese grannies would say that, if you stand under a grapevine, you can probably overhear what Zhi Nu and Niu Lang are talking about.
Chinese Valentine's Day is also called "The Daughter's Festival". Long ago, Chinese girls aspired to becoming skilled craftswomen like the Weaving Maid. This skill was considered essential to their future as wives and mothers. On that night, unmarried girls prayed to the Weaving Maid star for the special gift. When the star Vega was high up in the sky, girls performed a small test by placing a needle on the water's surface: If the needle did not sink, the girl was considered to be ready to find a husband. Once a year, on this day, girls could wish for anything their hearts desired.
In some Chinese provinces, people believe that decorating an ox's horns with flowers on Chinese Valentine's Day will ward off disaster. On the night of Valentine's Day, women wash their hair to give it a fresh and shiny look; children wash their faces the next morning using the overnight water in their backyards for a more naturally beautiful appearance; and girls throw five-colored ropes made during the Chinese Dragon Boat Festival on the roofs so magpies can use them to build the bridge.
種生求子：舊時習俗，在七夕前幾天，先在小木板上敷一層土，播下粟米的種子，讓它生出綠油油的嫩苗，再擺一些小茅屋、花木在上面，做成田舍人家小村落的模樣……
拜織女：“拜織女”純是少女、少婦們的事。她們大都是預先和自己朋友或鄰里們約好五六人，多至十來人，聯合舉辦。舉行的儀式，是于月光下擺一張桌子，桌子上置茶、酒。水果、五子等祭品…… 。 Chinese girls prepare fruits, melons and incense（熏香） as offerings to Zhi Nu, the weaving maiden, praying to acquire high skills in needlecraft（裁縫）, as well as hoping to find satisfactory husbands.
拜魁星：俗傳七月七日是魁星的生日。魁星文事，想求取功名的讀書人特別崇敬魁星，所以一定在七夕這天祭拜，祈求他保佑自己考運亨通……
拜“床母”：臺灣七夕除拜七娘媽之外，往往也另備小碗油飯到房中拜“床母”，二者應有類似含意。生產、育兒，這都是女性無可替代的職責，因此這類神祇也都是女性神；在女性神與女性信徒之間，構成密切的聯系，化解女性在承擔母職時的焦慮與恐懼……
