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Signs you are not living for yourself

你不是為自己而活的跡象

You lose your own opinion

你失去了自己的觀點

The most obvious manifestation of those who live excessively for others is the loss of their own opinions and positions. For them, self-worth is calculated by the trust and recognition of others.

過分為別人而活的人，最明顯的表現就是失去了自己的觀點和地位。對他們來說，自我價值是通過他人的信任和認可來衡量的。

According to Myers, these people often live with the thought: "I only deserve to be loved when I give everything I have to people around". They feel really good about being appreciated by people and believe that people only care for them when they are useful.

按照邁爾斯的說法，這些人生活中常常帶著這樣的想法:“只有當我把我所有的東西都給了周圍的人，我才值得被愛。”他們對被人們欣賞感到很高興，并且相信只有在他們有用的時候人們才會關心他們。

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