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Signs you are not living for yourself

你不是為自己而活的跡象

It is very difficult to say "no" to others

對別人說“不”是非常困難的

Sometimes, you may feel that saying "no" or rejecting someone's request will make them feel like you don't care for them. Therefore, agreeing to do what others want is sometimes a safe choice to help you maintain a relationship, even though there are times when you don't have the time or the ability to help them.

有時候，你可能會覺得說“不”或拒絕某人的請求會讓他們覺得你不關(guān)心他們。因此，同意做別人想做的事有時是幫助你維持一段關(guān)系的安全選擇，即使有時你沒有時間或能力去幫助他們。

Not stopping there, you sometimes even disagree to do things that you personally do not like or things that you think are wrong. This seems simple but can cause many big problems. They prove that you are putting the thoughts of others above your own. Some people may take advantage of it and "manipulate" you to do what they want even if it's wrong, because they know that you won't be able to say no to others.

不止于此，有時你甚至會不同意做一些你個人不喜歡或你認為是錯誤的事情。這看起來很簡單，但卻會導致很多大問題。它們證明你把別人的想法放在你自己的之上。有些人可能會利用它，“操縱”你去做他們想做的事，即使這是錯的，因為他們知道你不會對別人說不。

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