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Signs you are not living for yourself

你不是為自己而活的跡象

You have trouble defining your own desires

你很難定義自己的欲望

People who live for others too much often find it difficult to realize what they really want. The reason is because they choose to ignore their own thoughts in order to satisfy the wishes of those around them. Gradually, they become disoriented and do not know what they need or really want.

太為別人而活的人往往很難意識到自己真正想要的是什么。原因是他們為了滿足周圍人的愿望而選擇忽略自己的想法。漸漸地，他們迷失了方向，不知道自己需要什么，真正想要什么。

Sometimes these people do not dare to speak their true feelings, even though they want others to listen. For example, you often avoid telling coworkers that they make you feel tired,“They didn't mean it. If I say that, I will hurt them”. But, unknowingly, you are denying an important fact: They are the ones who hurt you.

有時這些人不敢說出自己的真實感受，即使他們想讓別人傾聽。例如，你經常避免告訴同事是他們讓你感到累了，你會說:“他們不是故意的。”如果我那樣說，我就會傷害他們。”但是，在不知不覺中，你否認了一個重要的事實:他們就是傷害你的人。

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