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如何在爭吵時不傷害感情
Don't sweat the details
不要仔細(xì)琢磨細(xì)節(jié)
"Arguments help you figure out what you're actually fighting about - an invaluable lesson!
"爭論能幫助你弄明白自己在吵什么--一個寶貴的教訓(xùn)！
When you delete the details of an argument, you quickly realize it wasn't about being on the phone too much, spending too much time with friends, or not picking up around the house.
當(dāng)忽略爭吵的細(xì)節(jié)時，你會很快意識到，你們爭吵的原因根本就不是因為玩手機(jī)太多、和好朋友相處的時間太久或是沒有收拾屋子。
It's about not feeling seen and heard, not feeling cared for, feeling taken advantage of.
而是因為感覺另一半不聽自己說話、不看自己、不關(guān)心自己，或感覺自己被利用了。
It takes practice not to get caught up in the details of an argument, but if you stop to feel rather than think, you can address the underlying issue and stop having the same fights - with different details - over and over again."
不陷于爭吵的細(xì)節(jié)是需要練習(xí)的，但如果你不再憑感受，而是去思考，那么你就能解決潛在的問題，并停止一次又一次細(xì)節(jié)不同的相同爭吵。"
【知識點講解】
figure out vt. 算出；想出；解決；理解；斷定
例句：
The boy can't figure out the algebra problems.
這個男孩做不出這道代數(shù)題。
It didn't take the children long to figure out the correct answer.
孩子們沒有花很多時間就算出了正確的答案。
I can't figure out why he is absent.
我弄不明白他為什么缺席。
catch up 趕上；很快拾起；纏住；了解近況，敘舊
例句：
She walked too slowly to catch up with us.
她走得太慢，跟不上我們。
Staff must stay behind after hours to catch up on their work.
下班後工作人員需要留下來把工作趕完。
The thief caught up the money and ran away.
小偷一把抓起錢,逃之夭夭。
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